When it’s Time to Let Go

How do you know when the relationship is over? There are a lot of considerations and maybe even painful process in order for you to feel like it’s time to let go of your partner. Maybe it’s one of those days when he or she suddenly stop putting effort, and start to act like you don’t exist. Maybe its one of those days when he or she stop respecting your boundaries and crossing the line. Maybe its one of those days when you realize you love him that much so you let him or her treat you bad. All of those feelings and urge to let go are an accumulation of what actually happen. You wake up and suddenly you realize you do not deserve the things your partner put you through. Or when you realize they do not deserve how you feel about them, they don’t even deserve to be loved so much by a person who is willing to drop everything for them but they won’t even stop 1 minute just to listen to you. When a relationship has turned into a toxic one, it will be much easier for you to let them go, when you give everything to someone and they toss it away like its nothing, it will hurt. It will hurt until it sets you free, you don’t have to babysit them anymore. You can give your love to someone much more, someone who respects you, love you, listen to you. Otherwise you are wasting time with a person who hurts you repeatedly. You need to stop tolerating abusive behaviours of your partner and start giving room to someone who wants to love you wholly. Moreover, you need to let go of that someone who makes feel like you have to beg for their attention and love, you need to let go of that someone who withold love from you because that is 100% abusive. But on the other hand, what happen when your partner is nice today and cold the next day? What happen when he or she is inconsistent that you don’t know why. They will be kind to you in order for you to like them and to attract you, but after you give your all to that someone they become distant and cold. This the so-called manipulation. Do not ever fall into this trap because this will give you a long and hurtful journey. It must be confusing at first when you try to stay for him or her when he is good but when he or she is cold the next. But when this happen repeatedly and even intentionally by him or her, you need to let go of this person. Don’t let them manipulate you. Be kind to yourself for once. You cannot keep on being walked on. I know saying it is easier than doing it, but this time try. Leaving is the hardest thing, then suddenly it is the easiest thing when you realize you deserve much more than that. When you let yourself to be free from the one who hurt you, you will be much happier and prouder of yourself. For what to expect from someone who treats you like that? Think about all of those things you did just so you could keep them. Someone else who truly loves you is the one who deserve those effort and energy .